Friday, April 13, 2012

24 Hour Travel Day

3:30 a.m. Friday, April 13

Justin stirs in his crib and I slowly open my eyes. Being a light sleeper I easily hear every sound he makes. I glance at the alarm clock on the floor and check the time. 3:30 a.m. Perfect timing. I have exactly half an hour to cuddle and feed him before it’s time to get up.

Hearing him fuss now, I carefully ease out of bed and reach down in his crib for him. Sure enough he’s hungry. I’ve become accustomed to his little grunts and squeaks and these ones leave no doubt in my mind what he wants.

Getting comfortable I cuddle my sweet baby till he’s done feeding. Although it’s not quite 4:00 a.m. yet, there’s not enough time to go back to sleep now, so instead I decide to get a head start on the day.

Opening the diaper bag, I quickly change Justin and then lay him on the bed. In the bathroom I wince as my contact lenses come in contact with my bleary eyes. Adding a few extra drops of solution to ease the discomfort I remind myself that my eyes aren’t used to wearing contacts at this time of night.

In the kitchen I turn on the kettle for a quick cup of tea and then head downstairs to change Jayden. He’s already awake and rambling about Haiti and whether Grandpa can come with us or not. As I help him get dressed I gently remind him that we aren’t going to Haiti, but Ontario and that we hope to see Grandpa when we come back in a month, God willing. Not sure where or what Ontario is, he simply shakes his head. I guess he will find out soon enough.

4:33 a.m.
The streets are quiet as we make our way to the Abbotsford Airport. With 3 suitcases, 5 carry-on, a stroller, and a car seat we are packed to the max. With two kids in tow, packing light is a now an impossible, fond memory. As we drive Jayden’s mouth goes a mile a minute and we do our best to remind him that every other kid is still sound asleep.

Although it’s going to be a long day, I’m more relaxed today then I’ve been in a long time. There’s something about the traveling life I love. Must be my ancestral gypsy blood.

My thoughts wander to the 6 weeks that have flown by since Justin’s birth. While the weeks preceding his birth seemed to drag on, the weeks following flew by so fast I hardly had time to blink, much less write. Visits with family and friends, Doctor appointments, an MAF presentation, Jayden’s first dentist appointment, meetings with supporters, moving out of our temporary home in Agassiz, moving back to Jason’s parents, my parent’s 40th anniversary celebration, and finally preparing and packing for our one month deputation trip to eastern Canada and the US. So many things done in such a short time period.

Coming back to the present I reach through the inky darkness for Jayden’s hand. Still talking, he now directs his conversation to the waning moon.

“I’m going to miss you moon,” He says. “You and Grandpa.”

“Actually, you won’t have to miss the moon Jayden.” I tell him smiling. It will be the same moon in Ontario, the United States and Haiti.”

“Really?”

“Yes.”

“Oh.” He pauses to ponder this for a moment. I really wonder what goes through his little head sometimes.

I turn my attention to the window and watch the scenery fly by. The short drive to Abbotsford airport is over before we know it and we soon pull up to the curb. Unloading our bags we say goodbye to Dad and proceed to check in. Although it’s a little more tricky juggling a baby, car seat and stroller everything goes smoothly.

As we wait at our gate, Jason snaps our picture to document Justin’s first traveling day. So far so good.

6:15 a.m.

Seated and strapped in we are ready for takeoff.

Or not? The pilot’s voice comes over the loudspeakers to say an oil pump pressure light turned on and must be checked. 15 minutes later the pilot’s voice can be heard again, this time he tells us the problem has been fixed but we need to refuel. A half an hour later we pull out for takeoff, only to idle on the edge of the runway. If we leave right now we might still make our connection in Calgary, but it’s not meant to be.

A now very apologetic pilot’s voice can be heard once again, this time to let us know they hadn’t calculated the correct amount of fuel needed, and we would need to refuel again. By the time the extra fuel is added, it’s 2 hours since the original departure time.

Too late to catch our connection now, we are told West Jet will reschedule our flight to Hamilton when we arrive in Calgary.

9:00 a.m.
Leaning over Jayden, I peer out the window. The beautiful snow capped Rockies loom beneath us. In awe of God's creation I snap one picture after another.


Looking beside me I watch Jason cradle Justin in his arms. Studying his relaxed features I'm certain he's going to be a great traveler.


10:05 a.m.
A West Jet employee approaches us with new tickets to Hamilton as we wait in line inside the Calgary airport. Glancing at the tickets I notice departure time is now 6:15 p.m. More than 8 hours from now.

With arrival into Hamilton being midnight, it means we won’t reach our Aunt and Uncle's home till 2:00 a.m.

Nothing like a 24 hour time span for Justin’s inaugural travel day.

With some $10 West Jet vouchers in hand and directions to the nearest lounge we head up the elevator. Thankfully the lounge is spacious, has comfortable chairs and free soup, sandwiches and snacks. Justin quickly falls asleep in his car seat.


Meanwhile Jason and Jayden play games on the ipad.



With 8 hours to burn, I finally have time to write the article due Monday and update our blog. Not remembering the last time I could just sit and work on the computer I savour this time.

Saturday, March 31, 2012

“Wherever you are - be all there.” Jim Elliot

Holding tightly onto Jayden’s handlebars I check both directions of Haig Highway.

“All clear!”

I smile at Jayden and he smiles back. Justin squirms in the baby carrier tied to my chest and I pull him snugly against me with my free hand. We’ve just come back from dinner at the nearby A&W and then a stop at the school playground. It’s 5:30 p.m. and although the sky is still blue the temperature is beginning to drop.

Crossing the road together I take a moment to explain to Jayden again the importance of checking both directions before crossing any street, road or highway. As soon as we reach the other side, Jayden pushes my hand away and pedals off.

“Slow down, wait for Mommy!” I yell after him and he reluctantly slows to a stop.

On the side of the road, by a row of mailboxes, a black truck is parked. Recognizing the occupants I make my way over for a chat. Inevitably the conversations turns to Haiti and once again I hear the familiar questions. “Do you miss Haiti? When do you go back?”

Since I’ve heard these questions so often now, I easily form my standard response.

“We hope to go back in July. There are definitely things I miss about Haiti, but when I am there I miss things about Canada too. If I strictly focus on the things I miss, I won’t be happy anywhere!”

Later after bidding them goodbye and walking the final distance home I remember the quote from Jim Elliot a friend shared with me. “Wherever you are – be all there.” I’ve taken that quote to heart since I know first hand that wishing you were somewhere else just makes you miserable.

For me being “all there” means appreciating what I have at any given moment. Right now that means a tummy full of tasty fast food, sidewalks for walking and biking, lungs full of fresh country air, and a beautiful view of the snow capped mountains.


Friday, March 16, 2012

Motherhood

Icy rain drips from the gutters as a brisk wind shakes the evergreens outside our living room window. Inside, the blazing fireplace fills the room with its warmth.

Snuggling Justin in my arms I kiss his rosy cheeks and gently touch his silky dark hair. He whimpers and wiggles and then closes his eyes and dozes off, completely content.

My gaze shifts to Jayden playing on the carpeted floor. Dinosaurs and train tracks are everywhere. Fresh laundry is piled up on the couch between the pillows, blankets and baby paraphernalia that has once again become part of our lives.

Glancing down, I notice my clothes don't match, I've forgotten to put on socks and I don't remember if I've run a brush through my hair this morning or not.

Snuggling my little baby and watching my big baby playing on the floor I smile happily. The importance of a neat house and matching clothes fade in comparison to the joys of motherhood.

From 2012

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Announcing - Justin Hendrick Krul


It is with great joy and thankfulness in our hearts to our heavenly Father, that we announce the birth of our newborn son -

Justin Hendrick Krul

Born on February 28 at 8:44 PM
Weighs 8 lbs 7 oz
Measures 52.5 cm

Both Wilhelmina and baby are doing well!

Monday, February 27, 2012

Patiently Waiting

Fluffy white snowflakes drift downward and I can’t tear my gaze from the window. In Job 38 it talks about God’s treasury of snow, and scientists have since then discovered the unique symmetrical pattern of each snowflake. God’s intricate creation. How beautiful.

A man coughs beside me, breaking into my reverie, and for a moment I pull my gaze from the window. Although not crowded, the Doctor’s office is busy, and I take a moment to study those around me. When my eyes land on a man wearing shorts, I smile. I’m pretty sure it’s only in Canada that people still wear shorts when it’s snowing!

“Wilhelmina.” I look up to see a nurse beckoning to me.

Wrapping my winter coat snugly around my burgeoning tummy, I make my way to the back.

“Still no baby?” She teases.

“Nope.”

It’s Friday and I’m already four days overdue. Patience has never been my strong point, and I feel God has been giving me many opportunities to practice this last week! Not only is baby overdue, everywhere I’ve gone this week has resulted in me having to wait. Today is no exception, and after getting my weight recorded, I’m once again given the opportunity to practice patience as I wait for an hour in the exam room for the Doctor.

As I sit I mentally rehearse my memory verse for this week; ‘But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it.” Romans 8:25

Patiently waiting. Sigh.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Valentine's Day

I ease off the couch and walk towards the window. Pushing the sheer curtain aside I peer into the darkness; waiting. It doesn't take long before the welcoming lights of the MAF van appears. Signalling, it turns and pulls into the driveway. They're back!

Smiling I head to the front door. Jason and Jayden enter a minute later, laden with Chinese takeout. Yum! Leaving their coats and shoes in the hallway they carry the bags to the kitchen counter.

In the dining room the table has already been set. Lighted candles illuminate the room with their soft cheery glow.


Sitting down together we bow our heads and pray, thanking God for His blessings.

The food is delicious and after dividing it up all three of us dig in. It's so nice being together as a family again! What better way to spend Valentine's day then a quiet, candlelight dinner with my two favourite boys?


Once supper is over Jason melts chocolate while Jayden and I wash strawberries. Strawberries dipped in chocolate makes a perfect Valentine's dessert!


After dinner, Jason readies Jayden for bed.

Quiet reigns. Snuggling with my husband on the couch I close my eyes for a moment. Contentment.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Two More Sleeps!

Dear Dad!

Only two more sleeps before you come home and Mommy and I are super excited! 5 weeks is a long time for us to do without you!

I've been taking good care of Mommy though!


Besides vacuuming,


From 2012

I also load the washer, dryer and dishwasher for her.

Mommy's tummy is getting pretty big so she can't bend over that well anymore. I made the mistake of calling her 'big fat Mommy' today. Warning for you Dad, don't mention anything like that to her! She half tickled me to death!


From 2012

While you were away I kept busy playing with trains, and one of my new favourite toys, Lego.

From 2012

Mommy has also been working on preschool with me everyday and in one of our activities we made our own dinosaur memory game. I love playing it and can't wait to play it with you!

From 2012

We've kept busy visiting family and friends and some of my favourite places to go are Grandma and Grandpa's and Oma and Opa's.

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I can usually talk both Grandpa and Opa into reading me stories! I especially like the ones about dinosaurs of course.

From 2012

One night, when we were missing you, Mom took me to your favourite restaurant.

From 2012

The burgers were delicious! Yum!

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And dessert, wow!

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Cousin Sid, came to visit for three days too, while you were away.

From 2012

Sleepovers are great fun!

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The weather was awesome so during the day we could play outside on the nut farm.

From 2012

Well, that's all for now! I can't wait for you to come home so we can all be back together again! Then the baby can come too!

xoxo, love Jayden